Are Heteroflexible People Apart of the LGBTQ+ Community 🏳️🌈
(This is the heteroflexible pride flag.)
This is annual post for Pride Month 🏳️🌈. I actually don't know if I want to make this annual thing or not. It's just that, after ranting about it at the end of my Furious (2025) review, which you should definitely check out, this topic is still on my mind and I wanted to write more about it while it was still on my mind. And I also figured that I would also write it now while it is still June, while is still Pride Month 🏳️🌈 because honestly, it is the perfect topic for Pride Month 🏳️🌈. At least for me. I'm celebrating or commemorating Pride Month 🏳️🌈 in my own way. I also don't know how long this post will be, I'll just keep writing until I run out of things to say. However long it ends up being is however long it will be. Also, I will mention some sexual stuff in here, but I won't get too graphic about it. Even though this is my blog, it is still on Blogger's platform, it is still running on Blogger's software or servers or whatever. They have rules and they have to be abide by if you wish to keep your blog and not have it get deleted.
And like YouTube, they do have strict rules on what you can write about or show in your blog when it comes to sexual content. Which makes sense since they're both owned by Google. You cannot describe sex acts in too much detail, you cannot mention any adult websites 🔞 by name and you cannot link 🔗 to any. As long as you do that, your blog or your blog post will not get age restricted. Even though my blog is more for adults, it's not that kind of adult blog. I'm not posting porn 🔞 here. I'm not writing about it nor am I showing it. So while I will bring up porn 🔞 and other sexual topics, I will try not to use any specific names or describe any specific sexual acts in too much detail. This is mostly directed at the Blogger team who may be looking over my post and seeing if it's breaking the rules or anything. If you do use humans to look at this stuff and don't just use an AI or algorithms, I am following the rules the best I can. This is kind of a sexual subject, sex will come up. I just can't help it if it's part of my story and part of how I formed my identity.
I will not describe any sex acts in great detail, I will not name any specific sites by name. I may allude to them by using euphemisms that people in the know will know, but I won't say the actual name of the websites. The only exception I'll make is Grindr since Grindr is a dating app and not an adult website 🔞. It's the original dating app since it predates Tindr, which was created in the wake of its success. Since Grindr was so successful with gay men ⚣ (also bi-curious, bisexual, pansexual, and of course heteroflexible men ♂︎ as well), that the people who created Grindr thought they would create a similar dating app for straight people ⚤. But, like with Grindr, people used Tindr less for actual dating and forming long term of relationships, and more for hookups. If you just want to meet somebody for sex with no strings attached, or perhaps make it a sort of long term thing (you know, a fuck buddy), then use Tindr. Or Grindr if you're a man ♂︎ and you're gay ⚣, bi, pan, or heteroflexible. But, if you want a real romantic relationship ❤️, someone you'll be with for many, many years potentially, then those aren't the apps for you. And I won't link to any of them 🔗. And for those you reading, let's try to keep it civil and mature in the comments, please? Got it? Let's go.
Now like I said in a couple of my past posts, including my Mega Shark Versus Giant Octopus 🦈🐙 review and my recent Furious (2025) review, I currently identify as heteroflexible. What that basically means is that I'm mostly straight ⚤, I mostly like women ♀︎. I am attracted to women ♀︎ and see myself engaging with women ♀︎ sexually and romantically ❤️ if the opportunity presents itself. The romantic part ❤️ is the most important to remember here, so keep it mind when you read the rest of this. But I do find myself occasionally find myself attracted to men ♂︎. There are some good looking men ♂︎ out there that even I find myself feeling some type of way about. But for me, the flexible part of my heteroflexibility mostly comes in the form of my porn preferences 🔞. While I do watch plenty of straight porn ⚤🔞, I do watch equal amounts of gay porn ⚣🔞. I really like gay porn ⚣🔞.
I can't help it, it makes me horny. It gets me hard. And it's good masturbation material for me, as all porn 🔞 is supposed to be. You don’t watch porn 🔞 for the story or the “characters” now do you? Unless it’s fan fiction…. I do like naked men ♂︎, I do like me some pecs and I like me some butts, but the part of the male body that I fixate the most on is the penis. I love penises 😍. I like blowjobs. I like ejaculations, I like cum. It’s probably why I also like futanari, though I personally don’t personally interpret futa as being trans ⚧ or anything, since a lot of times, futas are biological women ♀︎ that somehow grew a penis, either in place of their vagina or in addition to their vagina. Whether it’s through magic or science. There’s a lot of straight guys ⚤♂︎ who like futanari, though most of them don’t like to admit it because they don’t want to be accused of being gay ⚣. They have no idea that sexuality is not a binary, it’s a spectrum.
I used to think I was bisexual, and I identified as bisexual, when I realized how much I liked gay porn ⚣🔞, but I stopped using that label to describe myself at a certain point. Because while I do find certain men ♂︎ attractive, why I do like me some butts and penises, I can’t see myself dating another man ♂︎. At least, not at this time. Bisexuality implies you have romantic feelings ❤️ for another man ♂︎, but I just don’t have romantic feelings for other men ♂︎ ❤️. I just like watching them in porn 🔞, and if I do engage with another man in real life in a non-platonic sense, it would just be sexual rather than romantic ❤️. I just don’t really know because I haven’t really had the chance to explore that part of myself in real life beyond just watching porn 🔞 in my room. This could change if I gain more experience in the field in the real world if you know what I mean, but right now, my attraction is purely physical rather than emotional. And it’s more visual right now since I haven’t engaged with men physically in that way. At least, not yet. If that ever changes, I’ll be the first let you know. I’ll probably write about it on this blog. If not in its own dedicated post, then in another otherwise unrelated post.
So, I started using the label, heteroflexible instead to describe myself because I feel that it’s the label that best describes me based on what I currently know about myself, and it’s the one I currently feel comfortable with. Especially ever since I started using the hamster site 🐹 and they give you the option to identify as heteroflexible in the sexual orientation section of your profile. That was actually the first time I ever heard the term heteroflexible and I felt it fit me perfectly. I don’t feel comfortable using the label bisexual to describe myself at this current moment because I don’t personally feel I meet all the criteria to really be considered full bisexual. I guess you could say that I’m bi-curious, but again, I haven’t actually gone that extra mile of actually experimenting. Plus, I feel I’ve watched enough porn 🔞 to where it’s no longer just a “curiosity.” Especially since I currently lack real world experience, and the only time I get to explore this side of myself is on the Internet 🛜 and on screens. I would like to, I would like real world experience, but I just don’t have much opportunity to given my current living situation.
I don’t know how to drive, I don’t have license 🪪, and I wouldn’t feel comfortable having my grandma dropping me off somewhere to meet someone to engage in sexual activities, and then picking me up after I’m done BTW, I would feel the same if I was going to meet a woman ♀︎ for sex instead of a man ♂︎. It’s not simply me being ashamed of being attracted to men ♂︎ even slightly, I’m not. It would be awkward since it’s my grandma and she’s my only transportation right now. I’m going to this person’s house to have sex with them, and then get picked up after I’m done. It would feel awkward on the way there and it would feel awkward on the way back home. We probably wouldn’t say anything to each other afterwards. Or rather, we would speak, but not about that. Maybe when I’m able to drive and I have a license 🪪, I’ll indulge. I’ll download Grindr and everything. Or maybe not Grindr since there’s a lot closeted self-hating gay Republicans ⚣ who have otherwise bigoted beliefs and are terrible people on there 😬, but I’d find my ways. I’d find ways to meet people. Like if I met someone in Albuquerque, and we hit it off, I wouldn’t mind going to their house to have sex. Especially if it was a blowjob, or a handjob, or even just mutual masturbation. But right now I can’t. Porn 🔞 is really my only outlet.
But, the question I really want to ask, the reason why we’re really here and why I’ve gathered you all here is that I want to know, are heteroflexible apart of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈? Because the whole point of heteroflexibility is that you’re mostly straight ⚤ but you occasionally have homosexual feelings, and you occasionally engage in homosexual acts. For a lot of heteroflexible people, their homosexual tendencies are more situational than anything else. Like if you had a ship 🛳️ (like a pirate ship 🏴☠️ for example) full of nothing but men ♂︎, very few of them actually identified as gay ⚣ or bisexual when they were back at home, but they still felt horny, they still wanted to have sex. But there’s no women ♀︎ on board, and they have no idea when they’ll see another woman ♀︎ again. So instead, they engage in gay sex ⚣ to get it out of their system, to have sex of any kind, even if it’s with another man ♂︎. Of men ♂︎ too, if it’s an orgy. And then when they get home, they continue acting as straight ⚤ as they had before. That’s an example of heteroflexibility being situational.
For that reason, and others, including the identifying as “mostly straight ⚤,” can heteroflexible people truly be considered apart of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈? I know as a heteroflexible man ♂︎ myself, I don’t entirely feel comfortable with considering myself apart of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈. Not because I don’t want to be apart of that community, but because I don’t feel I entirely belong. Me still being mostly straight ⚤ (like about 70% or 75% straight ⚤) is kind of a barrier to me considered fully queer. I know bisexuals face a lot of stigma inside of the community even they’re apart of the acronym (they’re the B in LGBTQ+ 🏳️🌈) because they do have attractive to the opposite sex. They either get accused of secretly being straight ⚤ or secretly being gay ⚣. Bisexual women ♀︎ tend get accused of being secretly straight ⚤ and bisexual men ♂︎ tend get to accused of being secretly gay ⚣. It’s like you’re not allowed to like both men ♂︎ and women ♀︎ within certain circles of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈, you’re only allowed to like one or the other. Biphobia is this unspoken issue within the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈, this elephant 🐘 in the room that’s just barely starting to get addressed. Not every in the community is like that, most are accepting of bisexuals, but some very vocal minorities are not.
For us heteroflexibles, that issue is ten fold because our baseline is straight ⚤, our baseline is heterosexuality ⚤. I feel like a lot of us would get rejected by a lot of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈, and we’d be told to get out and stay out. That we don’t really belong. So for myself, while I am heteroflexible, I don’t see myself fully engaging with the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈 and acting as if I’m apart of it, and instead I’ll just stand on the sidelines as an ally. But what about you, dear reader? What do you think? Do you think heteroflexible people are apart of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈 or not? Let me know in the comments, I’d really like to know. I’d like to proven wrong about this, and potentially be welcomed into the community because it is a beautiful community. It’s very nice and welcoming…most of the time, and I feel like I would be supported if heteroflexibles are indeed considered apart of the community. But if not, I’m content with just being an ally ✌️. This is not saying the number two, it’s the peace sign just to let you know. Especially since one of my older sisters is apart of the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈. She's a lesbian ⚢, or bisexual, or whatever. She might actually be homoflexible now that I think about it 🤔.
And now that we’re talking, I think Emily from Emirichu, the Korean-American storytime YouTuber turned travel vlogger 🇺🇸🇰🇷, might heteroflexible too, given what she had to say about the character Shego from Kim Possible in the very first Childhood Crushes 😍 video she ever did 😏. Man, there’s a whole bunch of YouTubers who are just copying Emily, who are copying Emirichu. Ever since she did that first Childhood Crushes 😍 video, there are now a whole bunch of childhood crush 😍 videos on YouTube. Or just crush videos 😍 in general. And there are channels that are just completely knockoffs of Emirichu. One that immediately comes to mind is Honobread. Not only does her avatar or YouTube anime persona look nearly identical to Emily’s, but she covers a lot of the same topics as her. She even did a Genshin Impact video that hits almost the exact same beats as Emily’s Genshin Impact video (as in, the game is very addicting and she finds all the male characters ♂︎ very attractive 😍 and they’re the main thing that keeps her playing) and a travel to Japan 🇯🇵, which is another thing that I’ve seen increasingly in the storytime animator space. Ever since Emily moved to Japan 🇯🇵 with Daidus, now a lot of a sudden there are a bunch of storytime animated or illustrated YouTubers making traveling to Japan 🇯🇵 videos or moving to Japan 🇯🇵 videos.
It’s like whenever Emily does something and it blows up (as in, it gets a lot of views), it becomes a trend. The only thing she’s done so far that hasn’t become a trend on YouTube is her anime cafe videos. And that’s only because most of these people don’t live in Japan 🇯🇵, and don’t have the time or the money 💵 to go to collab cafes every week of every month. Emily has the money 💵 since she has over 3 million subscribers and she’s working for a multi-channel network called GeeXPlus that’s supporting her. So she has the money 💵 to flaunt and waste going to collab cafes and eating mediocre food and buying overpriced merchandise for a lot of anime, shows, movies, and even games that she isn’t even a fan of. Emily doesn’t even seem to like doing these videos, it always feels like an obligation whenever she does one. She admits that going to these cafes is an addiction, and she always “jokes” about not wanting to do another one until something or someone pulls her back in.
Like, the Love and Deepspace ❤️ collab cafe, and if you don't what Love and Deepspace is, it's basically a free-to-play Chinese mobile game 🇨🇳 that's like a dating sim aimed specifically at women ♀︎. It falls into a genre of game called Otome game (which means "maiden game" in Japanese 🇯🇵), which is a story-based romance game ❤️ aimed specifically at women ♀︎, where you play as a female protagonist ♀︎, and you fully experience the story from the perspective of that female character ♀︎. And the goal of the game, besides whatever main story goal might be present, is to form a relationship with one of the secondary lead characters, usually male ♂︎. In the case of Love and Deepspace ❤️, there are five men ♂︎ that you can romance in the game ❤️, and each of them have their own names and unique personalities. And they're all pretty boy types ♂︎, just the kind of men ♂︎ Emily likes. Even though the guy ♂︎ she's currently dating in real life, Daidus is not a pretty boy ♂︎ at all.
So really, this is a game that's specifically made for women ♀︎ to gush over and fawn over the male characters ♂︎, the male companions ♂︎. The people who made the game designed the men ♂︎ to be as attractive as possible to guarantee maximal female engagement ♀︎. And it seems like it worked because it got Emily and others like her celebrating the birthdays 🥳🎂 of fictional character don't even exist. Though, from what I understand, that's less of a specific Love and Deepspace ❤️ thing and more of a Japan 🇯🇵 thing since I've people celebrate the birthdays 🥳🎂 of non-Love and Deepspace ❤️ characters. Mostly anime characters. One of the anime YouTube channels I'm subscribed to always posts Community Posts celebrating the birthday 🥳🎂 of some anime character from some anime show. Usually one I haven't even seen. Why is it? Why do Japanese people 🇯🇵 and weeaboos celebrate the birthdays 🥳🎂 of fictional characters? Is it just one of those weird cultural differences that I'm unaware of? I wish someone could answer that question for me. I guess I shouldn’t be that surprised, I mean this is the same country that granted Godzilla (a fictional character) citizenship a few years back. It is a free-to-play game, so it has a gacha element to it, sort of like Genshin Impact. A lot of the games that Emily and women ♀︎ like her like are Chinese games 🇨🇳 that also gacha games. Why is that? I wish she could answer that for me, but she's kind of a hard woman ♀︎ to reach out to. I don't use X formally known as Twitter 🐦, so I can't just send her a DM, and while she does have an email 📧, it's for business only.
"Business inquiry" is what she put on there in her channel description. It's not for fans to hit her up and ask her whatever they want. Though she probably should create an email 📧 specifically for fan mail ✉️. But if I could, I would answer that question and more in an interview that I'd host here on the blog. Maybe I could email 📧 her about it, since it is technically business. Even if neither of us would get paid to do it. But she has worked with smaller creators before, so maybe she'd be willing to work with me. But, I do think she fully knows that going to these collab cafes nearly every month of every year is a waste of money 💵. Why else would she create a character out of her wallet, representing her wasteful spending? The wallet's always in torment, as if she feels pain that she keeps taking money 💵 out of him to spend. I don’t know why she doesn’t just stop making them if she hates doing them that much. It’s not that easy. I know it’s hard to curb an addiction, but come on. At least try.
And yes, there is such thing as homoflexibility. It's the same thing as heteroflexibility, only its people are mostly homosexual (either gay ⚣ or lesbian ⚢) who occasionally have heterosexual feelings and are occasionally attracted to the opposite sex. I guess for them, it would be “mostly gay.” Gay men ⚣ are occasionally attracted to women ♀︎, and lesbian women ⚢ are occasionally attracted to men ♂︎. Gay men ⚣ maybe engage with women ♀︎ sexually but not romantically ❤️, and lesbian women ⚢ same thing but with men ♂︎. Or hey, they may even watch straight porn ⚤🔞 as well as gay porn ⚣🔞 or lesbian porn ⚢🔞. That sort of thing. It’s a bit less common, or maybe it is a lot more common than we think, but it’s a lot less well documented. Not as many people openly identify as homoflexible as they do heteroflexible. And heteroflexibles are already a minority. They’re a minority amongst other minorities.
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